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3 End of Life Signs and Symptoms

Bracing ourselves for the impending loss of our loved ones is always a difficult and painful experience. While identifying end-of-life signs does not ease the pain, it allows us to start funeral pre-planning early, as well as gives us more time to be by our loved one’s side during their final moments, taking photos, engaging in hobbies, or even going on a vacation. In this article, we will explore three telltale end-of-life signs and symptoms to help you better prepare for the inevitable.

1. Loss of Appetite

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One of the most common signs that a person is nearing the end of life is a loss of appetite. As the body begins to shut down, its need for energy decreases, as does the desire for food. This can manifest in instances where the person is eating smaller portions, avoiding certain foods, or refusing food altogether.

Understanding the Symptom: It is important to understand that loss of appetite is a natural part of the dying process. Forcing food on someone who is not hungry can cause discomfort and may not be beneficial. Instead, offering small sips of water, ice chips, or a few bites of their favourite food can provide some comfort.

How to Cope: You can support your loved one by respecting their wishes regarding food and drink. This could also be an opportune time to plan and seek out funeral services. By having these difficult but necessary conversations early, you ensure that your loved one’s affairs are in order, and can begin this long and difficult journey ahead on the right foot.

2. Fatigue and Sleepiness

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Increased fatigue and a need for more sleep are also common as a person nears the end of their life. The body’s energy levels decline significantly, leading to extended periods of sleep and reduced wakefulness.

Understanding the Symptom: Fatigue at the end of life is due to the body conserving energy and prioritising essential functions. The person may sleep more during the day and be less responsive or interactive when awake.

How to Cope: It is essential to provide a calm and comfortable environment for the person to rest. Encourage family and friends to visit during times when the person is more alert, but also understand that these periods may be brief. During this time, engaging a funeral director in Singapore can help you make necessary arrangements for funeral services, allowing you and your family to focus on spending quality time with your loved ones instead.

3. Withdrawing Socially

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Social withdrawal is another common sign that someone is nearing the end of their life. This can include a reduced interest in social activities that they once enjoyed, less communication, and a desire for solitude.

Understanding the Symptom: Social withdrawal can be a natural part of the dying process, as the person focuses inward and conserves their limited energy. They may speak less, avoid eye contact, or wish to spend more time alone.

How to Cope: Respecting the person’s need for privacy and solitude is crucial. However, it is equally important to let them know that you are present and available when they wish to interact. Small gestures, like holding their hand or sitting quietly by their side, can provide comfort. This period can also be an appropriate time to finalise funeral arrangements, ensuring that the person’s wishes are respected, whether through asking them directly if they are willing, or through your own discernment. 

Planning for the Inevitable

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Understanding these end-of-life signs can help families prepare for the final journey of their loved one. It is a time to provide comfort, respect their wishes, and ensure their dignity is maintained. Ensuring that your loved one is sent off in the best way possible is in itself a form of comfort as well.

Learn More: 3 Heartfelt Ways to Honour the Memory of Your Loved Ones

At Confidence Funeral, we are committed to supporting you through this challenging time. Our funeral directors will help walk you through each step of the funeral pre-planning to create a funeral service that meets the needs of your loved one. Whether you wish to hold a Buddhist funeral, a Catholic funeral service, or a Christian funeral service, our services are respectful and sensitive to all religions.

For more information on how else we may lend our assistance during this difficult time, please contact us today.

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